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You’ll have to excuse my misspeaking a couple times–still waking up. Last night, lightworkers and healers from all parts of the United States, the UK, Canada, New Zealand, Greece, and Germany sent their love and prayers to supporting six activists they don’t personally know and a cause many of them were looking for ways to become involved in. This is a global awakening, Earth. LGBT equality is being supported around the world in so many different ways. It is a reality we are co-actualizing together. Way to go! LOVE ~Peace Tree
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Something different than my usual posts. Still Progressive. Hope you enjoy. Comments are welcome !..!
Artist: Vanishing Point
Song: The Tyranny of Distance
Album: The Fourth Season (2007)
Genre: Melodic/Progressive metal
Country: Australia (Melbourne, Victoria)
Surface, from this dream entwined.
Awakened, breathing I feel, your life inside Mine.
I’ve seen through, the longing,
Becoming and crying for nothing.
I view through, this chapter of pain undying.
Passing shadows to another high of hope.
Into another life alone outside,
Into another life unknown.
Inside I know I will survive, my wings are Healing.
These scars open to a new life, a new beginning.
Released from your dream, unwind.
Awake now, breathing you free your life inside Mine.
I’ve seen through, the longing,
Becoming and crying for nothing.
I view through, this chapter of pain undying.
Inside I know I will survive, my wings are Healing.
These scars open to a new life, a new beginning.
Cast in shadows from another high of hope.
From another life alone outside,
Into another life unknown.
Inside I know I will survive, my wings are Healing.
These scars open to a new life, a new beginning.
These scars open to a new life,
You can’t deny me breathing.
I know I will survive, my wings are healing.
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If you live with a mom, sibling, and grandparent, and ALL DAY you seem to be arguing, is it better to move out and take a break? Will the temporary distance heal the problems, or only cause more issues? I believe that its not something I would want to seek a family counselor or a therapist, but I want to hear your opinion on what you would do or what you think is right.
My mom and I use to fight all the time when i lived with her. After I moved out when i was 18 we got along great. We are actually best friends and can talk about anything. Living together just got on each others nerves because we were very alike. I would say give it a break…..if you want to, just tell them that you are moving out so that everyone can have their own space back and will get along a little better.
I have been running high school track (sprints, not distance) for a week and a half now. My legs were sore the first week, but in the last two days I’ve developed pain in my knees. It hurts when I walk downstairs and almost feels like it’s behind my knees. This pain is so intense that I can barely run. We have a meet tomorrow and I know I won’t be healed by then, but what can I do to minimize it and eventually heal the pain?
Well in short read this link on Knee pain to find the cause and fix it.
You may walk with your feet pointing out (duck feet) or you sit with your legs bent be hind you.
In any case things you do all the time may injure the knee and the pain starts when you run.
Check it out, I’m sure you can get well.
My partner has been split up from his ex for just over two years (was a long distance relationship – he is in the UK and she is in Canada) so apart from phone calls etc they rarely seen each other. well anyway he forgot to log out of his emails a few weeks ago and just before i logged out i noticed an email from her subject: up and down flies the emotions. I know i shouldn’t have but i was curious and read the email thread (see below). at the time this was sent i was 38 weeks pregnant, she knows about me and the baby. I had my little boy just under a week ago. well i just wanted advice on what to do, i’ve not mentioned anything but feel hurt by this, but kind of guess its my fault for reading it.
she sent the first email
Hey.
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> Up and down flies the emotions so sometimes staying away or out of touch is the best thing. What do you think?
followed by his reply:
I feel ya, dreamt about you 2 nights in a row, first night you were happy n all, we kissed (passionately). second night i looked everywhere for you and when i found you you were staring into space looking really sad, you hardly acknowledged my presence.
I cannot tell you what to do, but if you feel that’s what you need to do then i can’t do much about it.
just wish things were different.
then she replied with this:
I just don’t want to fight with you. You are a very special part of my life that is no longer existing but I still
have days when I dream about you and I just get up and pray about it. The last time I dreamt about you was last week or so and we were happy together. I woke up and I smiled knowing that the hurt in my heart is slowly healing. Since we have broken up I have been going through a difficult time fighting "high blood pressure" and now I am on medication for it. My health has plummet to a place that I cannot afford to get too stressed out about anything, so I would rather live a very simple uncomplicated life. I really don’t ask for much more than let the peace of God remain forever within me/us. I know that we will forever be good friends but that will happen as time heals all our wounds. I have started to exercise again and I lost some weight(only 5 pounds so far) I was thinking of sending you some pics but I am scared. Why? I don’t know. I am not the happiest person because of my health among other little things(finances) having not worked for almost 2 years, going back to school (for 1 year) and finding a taking a year to find a job so i cannot possibly catch up on 2 yrs can I ? But hey I am hanging in there….. ……….Always remember you are incontrol of your happiness do not let anyone take that away from you I promise I will never intervene in your personal life again, words cannot express how sorry I am and how stupid I was to let you go through the pain of loosing me again..I am so sorry and please forgvie me. We made something called an "unholy convenant’ or "soul ties" with each other and it is going to take a long time to break that( you may not understand what that is though). I really miss our friendship and sometimes I silently hurt an I pull away to ease the pain it has been 2 years and sometimes it hurts like it was yesterday….I was laying in bed the other day and I was thinking about the good old days which I try to block most times but I ended up smiling and falling asleep as I thought about those days one thing about it is there is always something to smile about,when it comes to us and I hope that God will continue to keep you in his care. Hey listen just be at peace with the situation and I would talk to you more often but I just don’t want anything to ruin what is left of our "friendship’ and that is my biggest fear. I am glad you are in the drivers seat in your relationship now so continue to enjoy the ride press on the gas and don’t forget when to change the gear and in case of emergency dial 911 (lol). I don’t know if I can go to Jamaica this year but a break would do me some good, don’t get me wrong I am not depressed even though I go through my modd swings I just need some time away from bills etc and some good relaxation will do me well. I will be sending my son down in the summer with my mom though. You have heard some of my heart today. (YEAH!!!!!!)
I will always be
"She".
well anyway, what do you think (sorry it’s long!)
thanks
bumblerumble or whatever you are called, it’s not like i’ve put their ‘yes thats how you spell it’ names or email addresses on here is it?!
i wouldn’t contact the woman, but didn’t know whether to say anything to him or let it go. I’m just scared
That must have hurt so badly, reading that. I don’t blame you for reading it; anyone would have done the same. Your emotions will be all over the place anyway at the moment due to all the hormonal changes with the pregnancy and birth, so don’t forget to take account of that too.
All I can say is you need to ask him whether he thinks this sort of emotional relationship with someone else is appropriate whilst he in a long term relationship with you. Ask how he would feel if he discovered deep and meaningful conversation between you and another man, telling him how you dreamt of him passionately etc.
Men can be very dense about this kind of thing. As she sent the first e-mail, it’s possible he is only politely responding and saying what he thinks she needs to hear (she does sound a little off the wall!).
Either way, you do need to discuss it. Don’t be ashamed of reading the e-mail. If he hadn’t written it there would have been nothing to read, would there? 
Hope it all goes well for you. Take care of yourself. You should be enjoying this very special time as a family; don’t let someone else take that away from you.
im a freshman and 14 yrs old
i had a surgery for my ruptured appendix on feb 6
im also in track and have a meet coming up next thursday!
(which im probably not gonna be in)im in long distance- a miler.
i’ve been getting mixed answers on whether i should run or not
my parents are mostly paranoid about it, of course
i have already started running on feb 23- i did warm up and 6×400s (the regular team did 10×400s)
it felt a little weird, but mostly it was normal. i was weaker and a lot slower too, slower than the training team people.
i’ve been skimping on workouts because im worried something might go wrong. (i opted out of 40m sprints and the 51/2 mi long run) i dont know the details of a ruptured appendix, but people like my parents and grandparents have been emphasizing the danger of intense exercise while recovering. my doctor said to take it slow.
but everyday at practice, i feel like i could be doing more and like im really slacking off. i really want to get back on track, but am not sure if i should run fast yet, as that would be intense exercise, and not taking it slow. i just feel so incompetent for being so slow, and really want to start running hard to get back to my usual times, but im not sure if i should let myself heal more first from my ruptured appendix.
i just found out that it could have been life threatening and got kinda freaked out….
if i were you i would not run, because i would be to worried about something going wrong. look at it this way you go to the first track meet and something goes wrong, then your out for the whole season. or you can wait a little while and gradually run more each day and then be stronger an run a really good race.
My girlfriend and I have been together for over 3 years, but the last year and a half was spent in a distance relationship. Now that we’re closer together again, we’re able to have sex more often.
Lately, though we’ve been having a problem with a superfical sagittal tear that keeps appearing in the same location proximal to the most posterior portion of the vaginal opening. For those non-anatomists, if she is laying on her back, the tear is located just below the lowest part of the vaginal opening. The tear is no more than 2 cm and heals quickly after a few days, but I can understand that it is very painful. Because we are very active during sex (multiple positions during sessions), we’re not sure when or how this happens but we’re working on identifying it. We do engage in extensive foreplay, so we don’t think it’s a "not warming up properly" issue.
My question is, what can we do outside of sex to help with the healing as well as preventing this problem from ruining our sex life?
Sometimes that portion can be dry even if the inside of the vagina is lubricated. You might try some Vaseline on that part because it will protect better than a vaginal lubricant. I may be getting the location wrong, but I get the impression it’s on the outside, maybe going to the inside. Something that protects, like Vaseline should help.
The other thing that might be the cause is changing position so quickly that it tears. Try making sure you are completely out of her vagina before you change positions.
Good luck!
Ska
For over 15 years I have distanced myself from my adopted mom and her other family members, but now that she has died, I feel no connection to her other crazy dysfunctional family members. They have been calling me like crazy and emailing me to help with the memorial services.. They are a high achieving family full of doctors and lawyers but they all have drug problems, disorganized and neurotic.. Total narcissistic peole. I thank God I escaped them.. That woman never knew how to love me (or her self)- more importantly- I was there when she drew her last breath. I then found out she left me out of everything with her WILL. That was a big blow.. She left everything to her 89 year old father who is a child molester.. She wrote her will, well over 10 years ago. She was very much in denial and scared to death of dying.. I have changed my number, and blocked email addresses.. But I am truly going through my grief, healing and letting go.. Any suggestions?? IOh,, I am in therapy..LOL
Wow. It’s like looking in a mirror.
I was never that close to my father’s family, but he too was in denial about his health and had no will at all when he died a year and a half ago. I was his only child and was 19 when it happened, so his insane family used this to their advantage.
They had convinced me that I was entitled to nothing since I was so young and my parents were divorced, threw him a $10,000 service (when I wanted to have him buried by the city for lack of funds), neglected to tell the estate lawyer that he had a daughter, and when the lawyer smelled something fishy and sought me out, they started coming after ME to pay for the service seeing as I was "getting everything" now.
Most of them got the idea when I refused to speak to any of them at the funeral. But one of them just cant keep her nose out of everything and keeps emailing asking how much I got and referring to herself as my ‘Aunt Denise.’ The woman had met me twice ever before this, and I was under 5 years old both times.
Anyway, to shorten up my long rambling mess here, I just cut the lines of contact with those people completely. They buried my father 5 hours away from me and I have no plans to let any of them know when I make it up there to visit him. Its a very small town so the chances of me running into one of them are high, but I plan to just keep walking.
I think you’re doing the right thing. You’re clearly the one who is hurting here and you don’t need to make it worse by dealing with those people on top of it.
Sorry for the rant, clearly, I’m not in therapy.
If you ever need to talk to someone who gets it, you can always message me on here, I’d be happy to help you out however I can.
Take care hun
Ages ago I was initiated in Reiki and a year later I got to level two but after that I didn’t use it much apart from self healing and now I feel it isn’t coming through particularly strongly.
Can the energy channels "silt up"? I also didn’t practice much distance healing and I’m not too confident it is working right any more.
Once attuned you are attuned for life…. The energy never decreases. Try some meditation before using reiki and envision the energy filling you up from the head down through all of your chakras. Balance your chakras and also try some self-scanning as these will help you to tune into the energies again. If you wanted to you could be attuned again and it will raise your vibration further – but no reiki is with you as much now as it was when you started, your awareness has changed not the energy. Also it’s possible that because you have been regularly self healing your body is not taking as much energy now as it doesn’t need it – try treating a friend and ask for feedback.
-I’m sorry this is so long but I need to say this to someone who really only understands spanish. Please help me to write this. I understand it won’t be word for word but hopefully you can understand what I’m trying to say. Thank you in advance..
I’m sure you are confused about our relationship as I am. I feel like I can’t do any right with you and I’m always having to apologize for my actions. I know we have no future together but being with you however I can is what makes me happy. But I guess we’ve come to the point in our relationship that its time to say goodbye. This is not what I want but I don’t know what else to do. I’m sorry for sending Fernando as the messenger, I did not mean any harm. I love you with all my heart. I will stay my distance from you not to be mean but I need time to let my broken heart heal. Whatever it was that brought us together I’m happy that it did because the times we spent together were very speical to me.
I answered the other one, anyway here it goes again:
Estoy segura de que estás confundido, al igual que yo, con respecto a nuestra relación. Siento que no puedo hacer nada bien contigo y siempre tengo que disculparme por mis actos. Sé que no tenemos un futuro juntos pero, sin embargo, estar contigo me hace feliz. Pero creo que llegamos a un punto en nuestra relación en donde tenemos que decirnos adiós. Esto no es lo que quiero pero no sé qué más hacer. Disculpa por mandar a Fernando como mensajero, no quise lastimarte. Te quiero con todo mi corazón y me alejaré de ti no por ser mala, sino porque que necesito que la herida de mi corazón sane.Lo que haya sido que nos juntó, estoy feliz de que haya sucedido porque los momentos que pasamos juntos fueron muy especiales para mi
Note: I didn’t use a web tranlator (they’re terrible!) because I’m an english translator, from Argentina, so spanish is my mother tongue and I have a perfect command of both languages.
Good Luck!
