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Because the Nano Wand works so well in person, we wanted to test it out with distance healing over video chat after a friend tipped us off to it. So we linked up with our friend Raven Garland in Boulder, Colorado, while we were in Fairfield, Iowa. Raven had never seen or used a Nano wand or anything like it before. Let the video speak for itself, more to come.
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I was born in ukraine, just few years after explosion in chernobyl, I was born like 700 km from that place. But as you know radiation spread everywhere. So far I haven’t had any like major ilness, can it appear later? I also noticed my older cousin is 20 and she’s getting loads of like ilnesses , which only old ppl would have, my younger cousin which is 5 years, is getting ill a lot. Like temperature , and stuff like that very very often. Every month I would say. Is that somehow revelant? I also noticed I am getting ill very very rarely, like last time I was ill it was almost a year ago. in all my life time I was sick for total about 2 months. relevant or coincidence? I also sense smell faster than anyone else in class by about 2 minutes. Even though I am in other end of class and even though 17/24 hours a day I sit at pc, for already 7 years, I still have totally perfect eye sight, like I can read letters of half a centimeter at distance of like 4 metres but thats probably coincidence as well. And all wounds I get all healed very very quick, I had broken arm once, it healed in like 5 days.
Hi there! Guess what? I’m Ukrainian, too!! I’m a sickly girl, always getting colds and fevers, and you name it. I also have asthma, but it’s hereditary, from my mom. Well, it all may be just coincidence, depending on if you live far away from the epicenter of the radiation. I don’t think it’s from radiation, though. It could just be you. I mean, I myself was born in Lviv, so that’s pretty far from Chornobyl. And also, if you have been living there for a short time, then you’d have only a very slight chance of bein irradiated. I lived in Ukraine until I was 8, and that’s when we moved here.
1st scenario:
He’s in Bangkok & i’m in the Philippines. He had visited 5 times. I love him. I still very much love him. I do love him. Then he admitted sleeping with someone in Bangkok but i forgave him & we went on with our relationship. I really love him. After that admission, I started feeling afraid of losing him, started having insecurities & doubts that we would have online fights. His admission about that sleeping with that girl really affected me. He’s in Bangkok right now & I did a mistake of sending an email pretending it’s not me just to get his attention online because i’m afraid that he might be visiting the girl & sleeping with her again. He found out that the email came from me. I really do love him. I really do. What a stupid thing I did! Because of that email, I haven’t heard from him since. He said he loves me but he lost the trust and belief. Can I still win him back? I really do love him. I am faithful. I just stupidly did that. We’re apart. I don’t know how to prove online that i do really love him. I really do. Please enlighten me…
2nd scenario:
I’ve expressed my wholehearted sorry.
3rd scenario:
I’m sorry guys but I am really emotional right now, confuse and I need help with enlightening me again with what he just said. I want to know if him and I still have a chance to be together again. I am holding on. I love him. He said:
"I dont want to forget you, we connected. That makes all that has passed all the more hard to digest. I have your photo here on my desktop. The one I took in Apo, with your beautiful smile. I look at it every now and then. I suggest time as a medicine after I know the answers to my questions. I want to heal too. We shouldn’t contact each other at
least not for the remaining months of the year. Maybe, someday, we see each other".
I am very much distracted right now and I cannot even work. I feel like the world has stopped. I need someone to answer this question, please. Thanks very much, guys.
rebuild? if you forgive him and he does not forgive you then there is no way that you can make the bridge to meet at the center. as they say it take two to tango! you are just being blind girl, there are so many man around you and a lot of fish in the sea. give someone else a try so he will know what he had lost!
I’ve been going out with a guy from Italy for over a year, we had a fantastic time, alternating months visiting each other. Summer was the most immense, he came for most of July to England, we showed him around, and his family reciprocated the favor for me in Italy during August. I felt rushed to book tickets straight after, feeling obliged due to ‘free’ ryanair tickets (well, baggae and insurance needed paying for) and the prospect of it being in the future. I realise that was my hasty mistake.
I was meant to go on wednesday to italy, but it only just fully reached my conscious level yesterday that i wanted to break up with him. Reasons being 1. I don’t want to keep waiting for the storm to pass, i want to go out and dance in the rain 2. I’m young and he’s so pushy and obsessive, I just want to feel more free, less trapped 3. His obsessiveness has actually pushed my feelings away.
Mean as it may be, I felt it would be more cruel to fly to italy at his birthday for a week with the intent of breaking up with him, so did it on msn. I know its mean but it would be more sick to do so. Financially, he’s booked a flight here at christmas and i’ve turned him down. When he said about the money he’d wasted i said i could refund it and he said don’t speak rubbish, i don’t need your arms.
Initially he acted upset and said stuff like "thanks for the best year of my life" and "it’s been a nice dream" and other equally sad statements such as "say i love you to your parents, i won’t see them again"
Later though he got really angry and started saying "you’re a coward, hipocrite, thanks for giving me a really really happy birthday present" "i don’t believe you" "i realise italians and english say the same rubbish" "i don’t believe you" "in all politeness liz F**K OFF"
I started the break up by saying i couldn’t come next week because 1. my college isn’t allowing me time off and 2. my grandads cancer is coming on faster than expected. Both true. He asked if he shouldn’t come at christmas himself, i said probably not it will be a very sad christmas. He himself through paranoia guided me toward "are you saying you want a pause?" then pushed me to saying lets end it now as he said "please, i need time to heal a wound, if it’s not a pause and i have nothing to wait for please tell me now"
This was on msn. It was later he called me a coward for ending it on msn. Surely i had no other choice, we don’t ring each other, we talk via msn or face to face when we fly to see each other.
What I feel from this is… I’ve lost a best friend. He was the only person who fully respected and was interested in everything i had to say. I’ve tried to grow to love him, but only in the friendly way has this been allowed. I’m not sure what to do with myself. I have many friends over there, and i’m sure, seeing how sad he is, they will all rush to his side and hate me.
It is already clear his sister feels this way, her facebook status was "f you… f you… f you very very much" and his best friend liked this. I hate to cause pain, but at the same time i know more pain can be caused in the long run from living a lie. I was, and still am, in a no-win situation.
What can I do?
I feel a void.
talk to him about it
hes really hurt
talk to him every day
a little more and more each day
and eventually youll have a beautiful friendship
http://www.beyondreikimaster.com/healing-session-may-19/may-19-healing-session.html A video describing how I do distant energy healing, and how energy can connect with others over a distance to produce profound healing effects
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This all happend around 5 hours ago. Me & boyfriend are having a huge rough patch. Actually may i say "EX" now. And lately hes been doing weed. I absoultey hate that it has sucha big impact on my life from the past. I’ve given him 3 chances and you can only give so many until your bieng walk all over right ? He’s my first love and i know that. it’s so hard saying good bye. I called him and ended it. He didnt even seem like he gave a damn. He admitted he did it, and was like i wouldnt blame you if you broke up with me. wouldnt that make you feel he was hoping for it ? I never took any guy seriously up till him. I cried for the 1st time over a guy i let the soul cleanse. Keep in mind we’ve been distanced for almost 41 days. Im half way around the world on vacation which just makes matter harders and im cming hom in 6 days. It’ll be so hard facing him. Hes making such a big effort of keeping things. I just feel in the end i’ll regret what i did so badly and is so mad at him theres really no effection left to spare. I really dont know what to do when i get home. I truely do want him back but i just cant. It’s just so hard and i know plenty know how it feels. He’s the boy who always puts ont he act of " bieng okay" i’ll never know his true effection unless were close like we were. Right now I have him and hes my everything or i dont have him at all and hes nothing. I just cant be " bestfriends " with him thats just a lead to pain. By the way He was all romantic and everything seemed fine for 3 weeks but bam this happens i feel ive been lead on.
What should i do with this sitaution ?
Answers please !
Try to understand why you are upset. Understand that everything happens for a reason. What exact moment did you feel upset?
Don’t think about whose fault it was- at one time or another, everyone makes mistakes. Don’t worry about it.
Do something quiet and relaxing to help you feel better. Maybe you want to take a hot bath, or meditate, or read a book. That’s fine.
In an hour, or two, or whenever you’re ready, start thinking about whether you are ready to accept the other person’s feelings.
If you are, go ahead, call them, write them a note, or whatever you need to do. Maybe you want to talk face-to-face. They may not be willing to see you, or talk to you, but you should make an effort. Even if they turn you down, you feel better that you tried, and maybe they’ll recognize that you made an effort.
Move on. When you feel you are ready to open your heart again, find someone else to be with.
Smile! Seriously, smiling makes you feel better and if you gather a few good, close friends and have a laugh together, you’ll remember how good life was without him/her and that you’re okay really.
Remember the 2-year rule. It takes 2 years to learn a new job, to get accustomed to a new town and to completely heal a broken heart. If you follow these steps without remembering this first, you will be overly optimistic and disappointed. Real results are obtainable when realistic expectations are set.
The moment he, she or it hammers the last drop of blood from your still loving/beating heart, stop arguing with that person or the fantasy voice of that person about how they are wrong and you are right. Everytime you catch yourself arguing your point in your own mind, just say stop and focus on something completely different.
Gather all the memories of that person and put them in a box, with the exception of 1 picture, one item of food, one item of smell association and one related music item. Then on the next occasion of significance (a Saturday night for example…when you would have normally been with your heartbreaker…put on the music, douse yourself in the scent of memory, eat the special food, turn the lights down low, and cry and rant and wail. You must be at the top of your voice and able to move around the room. Note it is best to do this when you are alone — see "how to act crazy" post.
Put away the memories. When you regain composure from step 2, put the remainder candy wrappers, music, item of smell memory in the box with the rest of the memory debris. Keep out the picture.
Every day for a week when you walk by the picture of your former beloved, say out loud, "Forget you and the horse you rode in on," or some other suitable invective and then catch yourself arguing with the memory and say stop. Say it out loud, be your filthy angriest self in these mutterings.
Every day for the second week when you walk by the picture of your former beloved, say out loud. I miss you, and then catch yourself arguing with the memory and say stop.
Every day for the third week when you walk by the picture of your former soul mate, say I am sorry out loud to the picture.
Replace the picture of your former dearest, with a picture of yourself. But keep the picture in the same place, just put a picture of you on top of it. Then every day when you walk by the picture, say I am sorry out loud to the picture. Yes you are apologizing to yourself for having gone that far around the bend for someone who didn’t know your value and worth, and who doesn’t matter anymore.
Let time heal. It has been one month now. Go to someplace where you used to go or be near your so-called one-true love and go there with a friend (not alone, this is important). Mention 1 time and 1 time only how you used to drink at this very bar or your used to fend off Mr or Mrs. Wonderful’s advances in that same back store room, mention it once only and then have a drink or file some papers, or do what ever you used to do, only now with a different person, preferably a comfortable friend who can smile knowingly then move the conversation forward.
Practice being honest to yourself every day.
Read a book every night before you go to sleep. You might never have read books, but nothing moves you outside of yourself better than a book, not a movie, not a music video, read a book. It will help you heal.
Start dating other people again and not be a raving lunatic after about 2 months.
Speak to people. Speak to friends. Try out forums online. Knowing that thousands like you are going through the same pain helps a lot.
[edit] TipsDo not go on any dates with the person from whom you are trying to heal. This is not productive and will not lead to healing. There is no more closure. There is only healing.
When trying to heal do not accept phone calls and exchange flirty emails with the former object of your desire. This is also not productive and will only prolong the healing process.
You are not healing from the broken heart your sweeti
One of my friends (we’ve been friends for 16 years) does a sort of healing/energy work (not reiki) over a distance and I asked her to see what she could do for a family member who was having medical issues. Normally she has charged me about 2 or 3 hours of time (at $50 an hour) when she helped me, but suddenly I got an email from her stating that she spent 7 hours of her time in energy work for my family member. I was shocked, wrote her back that I had no idea that she would have spent that much time and questioning her what made her assume I would ever be able to afford that much money – why didn’t she warn me it would be so expensive?! She is offended and feels that I am ungreatful for her efforts for even questioning her about this. I told her I WOULD pay her, but I’m just concerned about how she presumed I could afford such a huge amount of time – but she isn’t returning phone calls or emails. Help.
I don’t know much about this distance healing/ energy thing. Sounds like it’s worthless, but that’s ok. Sounds like your friend took advantage of you and it sounds like the terms of the agreement weren’t completely worked out. Happens alot among friends- you think you can trust them, but in the long run friends can take advantage of you more so because they know your strengthes and weaknesses. I would just say call and leave a message that you need to talk. And talk in person to each other just say you don’t have the money in total right now can you make payments (if you feel you still want the friendship with this person) but ask if they’ll deduct an hour or two on their end since the kinks weren’t worked out on timeing etc…..maybe both of you can work it out but take a little bit back to keep the friendship good. In my opinion they should have asked how long or just done the typical amount of time they worked with you (the 2-3 hours)…..your decision. Hope it works out ! Everything happens for a reason they say- maybe this was a test and they didn’t pass….good luck though….take care
My dog was hit by a car today. We took him to the vet but he might not make it. I was wondering if there was a spell a or chant that could make him feel better or something. I know i sound crazy but im really desperate. The spell has to work at a distance because im at home and my dog is at the vet..PLEASE HELP ME.
Spell for Healing a Pet
You will need:
* Lavender oil
* Camphor Oil
* Rosemary Oil
* Base Oil (Apricot Kernal, Jojoba, Grapeseed, or Olive Oil are good)
* A Black Candle
* A Red Candle
* A Brown Candle
* Several stones or crystals
Mix some healing oil, using:
* 6 drops Lavender oil
* 6 drops Camphor oil
* 6 drops Rosemary oil
* 1/2 ounce base oil (apricot kernel, jojoba, grapeseed, even olive oil)
Anoint a black candle, a red candle and a brown candle with this healing oil. The black is for absorption of the negativity (the illness), the red is for strength and health, and the brown is an "astral" or "significator" candle for the animal. Place the brown candle between the black and red candles, and make a ring of stones around the set-up, using stones or crystals that you associate with healing (amethyst, quartz, agate…you choose whichever type or combination of types). Place some of the oil in your hands, and begin to rub them together, generating heat and energy. When you feel that you’ve built a small "bundle" of healing energy, place your hands on your pet, stroking it and giving it the healing energy you’ve built, making sure to concentrate on any areas where you feel or sense the illness. Focus on the candles, continuing to maintain contact with your pet, and visualize the strength from the red candle pouring into the brown candle, and pushing all the sickness into the black candle. Attune with the Goddess, and when you’ve got a good grip on the visualizations above (and the animal!), say:
"Goddess, with your healing touch
Bless this animal we love so much.
God, with beasts as your domain,
Remove the sickness, heal the pain.
So mote it be!"
Continue the stroking and energy flow until you feel that the spell is done, then allow the animal plenty of time to rest and heal. Obviously, if you wish to perform this spell in a cast circle, that’s your choice. If you wish to continue the spell for a number of days (I’d suggest at least 3 days), and your pet has a special place where it rests or "lives" (such as a cage, etc.), ring this area, if possible, with the stones, place a red candle on one side of the area and a black candle on the other (anointed with the healing oil); focus on the red candle and project its energy into area with your pet, visualizing the illness being pushed out the other side, since there’s no room for it, and into the black candle. Rub the oil onto your hands and stroke it into/onto the animal’s body as often as you feel necessary
I have the opportunity to transfer to another college campus (same university though) for next year. I currently have attended the main campus for 4 years and have 2 years remaining (however last year is rotations around the state). I would be taking the same courses at either campus but at the distance campus I would have to watch more lectures online, whereas the campus I currently attend I have the option to attend live lectures (but I usually just watch most of them online anyways).
My parents bought a nice, new, big second house that is located about 15 minutes or 6 miles away from the other distance campus. There shouldn’t be too much traffic on the way to campus but the distance campus is in the middle of nowhere (no shops or restaurants within walking distance). The apartment where I would live by the main campus is older, doesn’t have a laundry room or dishwasher but I haven’t signed the lease yet for August. I could walk to the main campus in about 10 minutes from the apartment.
In terms of relationships and friends, I just broke up with my boyfriend that I lived with before so I feel that moving to a new city that is a couple hours away will make the healing process easier. I have some people in my class that I study with a lot but we only do things outside of school sometimes (every few months) so they are not real friendships. The distance campus has less people, and many people have said that the students that go there are closer and get more personal attention. I know a couple people that currently attend the distance campus right now and they said that the population is somewhat older (I am younger), more people have families (I do not), and they don’t like to party (I do not either). The campus I am currently attending is very cliquish and I do not like that and it seems like most people like to party and get drunk. Also since my college is 6 years total most of my friends from high school just graduated so I won’t be seeing them any more.
At the main campus there are many great resources available such as the gym, library with late hours and big screen computers, free student health care center, mental health services, and football games (don’t really care for though). Going to the distance campus doesn’t mean I do not have access to these services still but because they would be 2 hours away I probably won’t use them at all. There is pretty much nothing besides the classrooms, a very small library and picnic tables there.
After debating the pros and cons, I am still having trouble deciding which campus I should attend next year. What would you do in my situation? Would you stay at the main campus for one more year because of the great resources or transfer to a new distance campus in hopes of making new friends if money was not an issue?
I’d stay put. You have everything you want there, already. You also have disquieting feelings from a recently ended relationship. Those feelings will go with you no matter where you go. You need time to settle them. Leaving for new environs sounds romantic and colorful except it’s really just another name for confrontational avoidance. Better to face the truth and be done with it. Don’t run.
Len
I dated *Carl* long distance for three months, and we fell head over heals. The distance eventually became a problem, and I broke up with him in a fit of rage because he was being rude. (I was wrong for that, but you can’t change the past.) After about a month, he called me wanting to be friends. We talked as friends for a couple weeks and decided to hang out. This lead to a No Strings Attached relationship. He said he didn’t need a relationship right now and I’m leaving on deployment for a year in a few months, so I thought it was a good idea at the time. Since then, we’ve spent almost every weekend together and I’ve found we’ve been acting as if we were in a committed relationship and had never broken up. I asked him about this, and he assured me the relationship was still NSA. We both feel deeply for eachother, so my real question is does he not want a committed relationship with me because of the deployment (because he doesn’t think he will be faithful)?
He is probably leaning towards that. A NSA relationship means he will not have to take any responsibility for what he does while you are gone and then, when you get back, can possibly just pick right back up. While it may sound bad, I am just trying to think from an average guys POV on dealing with a year of absence in a relationship. That’s just my opinion though.
